Nobody Cares That You Used to Be in Shape | Fitness After 40

Nobody cares that you benched 315 pounds.

Nobody cares that you ran a 4.6 forty.

Nobody cares that you had abs in college, won a state championship or played football, baseball, basketball or wrestled 20 years ago.

Those are awesome memories. Be proud of them. They helped shape who you are.

But they don't help you carry your groceries today.

They don't help you chase your kids around the backyard.

They don't improve your conditioning.

They don't make your hips and shoulders move better.

And they definitely don't guarantee you'll be strong, healthy or capable 10 or 20 years from now.

At some point, every guy has to accept a simple truth:

Your body doesn't care about what you used to be able to do. It responds to what you're consistently doing right now.

That becomes increasingly important when we're talking about fitness after 40.

STOP LIVING OFF YOUR OLD HIGHLIGHTS

Most guys know an Uncle Rico.

The guy who still talks about what he could have done if coach had just put him in the game.

Or the guy who can tell you every detail about the four touchdowns he scored in high school but couldn't tell you what his current fitness goal is.

It's funny until we realize how easy it is to become that guy.

Instead of talking about what we're building now, we start talking about what we used to do.

Instead of setting new goals, we relive old victories.

Instead of training, we reminisce.

That's where a lot of men quietly get stuck.

Your muscles don't care what you lifted in 2008.

Your cardiovascular system doesn't care how fast you used to run.

Your joints don't remember your varsity letter.

Your body responds to the stimulus you're giving it today.

If you want to remain strong, lean, mobile and athletic after 40, the work has to continue.

WHAT HAPPENS TO MUSCLE AS WE AGE?

This isn't just motivational talk.

There are real physical changes associated with aging.

Research has estimated that skeletal muscle mass can decline approximately 3–8% per decade after age 30, with losses becoming faster later in life.

Strength and power can decline as well, especially when people become less physically active.

But that doesn't mean you should throw your hands in the air and blame your age.

It means training matters even more.

Strength, conditioning, mobility and physical capacity are all things we can continue training.

You don't need to accept becoming weak simply because another birthday passed.

You do need to continue showing up.

YOUR MIND MAY REMEMBER 25, YOUR BODY KNOWS YOU'RE 45

This is where a lot of guys get themselves into trouble.

Your mind still remembers the version of you that was 25.

You remember being able to play pickup basketball for two hours without warming up.

You remember lifting heavy, sleeping five hours and doing it all again the next day.

You remember sprinting without thinking about whether your hamstring was prepared for it.

Then you're 40, 45 or 50 and assume that version of yourself is still hiding somewhere underneath the surface.

Reality usually shows up at the worst possible time.

You play pickup basketball.

Help a friend move furniture.

Hike a mountain on vacation.

Run after your kids.

Try jiu-jitsu for the first time.

Then you realize pretty quickly that your current physical capacity might not match the picture you still have in your head.

That's not necessarily a bad thing.

It can be exactly the reality check you need.

THE BEST THING YOU CAN DO AFTER 40 IS RESET YOUR EGO

One of the healthiest things that can happen to your training after 40 is letting go of the idea that you still need to be the athlete you were at 22.

Maybe you're a little slower.

Maybe some of your old numbers aren't there anymore.

Maybe your recovery takes longer.

Maybe you need a longer warm-up.

Maybe your body responds better to three or four hard training days instead of six.

That's okay.

The mistake is continuing to chase your younger self because your ego won't let you train for the body and life you have today.

Once you stop trying to prove something, you can start making intelligent progress again.

Instead of saying:

“I used to deadlift…”

Start saying:

“I'm working toward…”

Instead of:

“Back in high school…”

Start saying:

“This year my goal is…”

That's the difference between living in the past and building your future.

YOUR FITNESS GOALS SHOULD CHANGE AS YOU GET OLDER

Your goals at 45 don't have to be the same goals you had at 25.

Maybe your only goal at 25 was looking good with your shirt off.

Nothing wrong with that.

But as you get older, your definition of being fit should probably get bigger.

I want you to be able to hike.

Travel.

Play with your kids.

Learn new physical skills.

Carry heavy things.

Train without constantly feeling broken.

Get down onto the floor and easily get back up.

Sprint if your body is prepared for it.

Jump.

Play sports.

Maintain muscle.

Have good conditioning.

Feel capable.

That's what athleticism after 40 looks like to me.

You're not trying to relive your youth.

You're trying to maximize the decades you still have ahead of you.

HOW TO GET BACK IN SHAPE AFTER 40 

The answer isn't sexy.

You don't need a biohack for everything.

You don't need to completely reinvent training.

And you definitely don't need to destroy yourself seven days per week.

You need to consistently do the basic things that work.

1. STRENGTH TRAIN CONSISTENTLY

Strength training should be one of the foundations of your fitness after 40.

The U.S. Physical Activity Guidelines recommend adults perform muscle-strengthening activity on at least two days each week, in addition to aerobic activity.

For many experienced adults, three to five strength-focused training days can work depending on training volume, experience, goals and recovery.

The key isn't doing as much as possible.

It's doing enough quality work consistently to maintain and build muscle and strength.

Squat.

Hinge.

Push.

Pull.

Carry.

Use dumbbells, kettlebells, sleds, pull-ups, dips, split squats, rows, presses and other movements that fit your body.

Train hard enough to create progress without turning every workout into a demolition project.

2. EAT ENOUGH PROTEIN

Muscle doesn't maintain itself by accident.

Protein provides amino acids your body uses to maintain and repair muscle tissue, and adequate protein becomes especially relevant when you're strength training and trying to preserve lean mass as you age.

Build your meals around quality protein sources and make it part of your daily routine instead of trying to “make up” for poor nutrition at the end of the week.

You don't need to eat perfectly.

You need to eat consistently well.

3. WALK EVERY DAY

Walking might be one of the most underrated tools in fitness.

It helps keep you active without beating you up, supports your aerobic base and is easy to recover from.

The broader goal is simple:

Move more and sit less.

Current U.S. guidelines recommend adults accumulate roughly 150–300 minutes of moderate-intensity aerobic activity each week, along with regular strength work.

Walking is one of the simplest ways to start accumulating that movement.

4. BUILD YOUR CONDITIONING

Don't be the strongest guy in the gym who gets winded walking up a few flights of stairs.

You can be strong and have an engine.

Row.

Bike.

SkiErg.

Ruck.

Push sleds.

Incline walk.

Run if your body is prepared for it.

Some conditioning should be easy and conversational. Some should challenge you.

Your training should prepare you to actually do things outside the gym.

5. DON'T IGNORE MOBILITY

Mobility shouldn't become important only after something starts hurting.

Spend time working on your hips, ankles, shoulders and thoracic spine.

Squat deeply.

Hang.

Rotate.

Get on the floor.

Move through different positions.

Five or ten minutes consistently will usually make more sense than ignoring mobility for six months and then trying to fix everything in one weekend.

The goal isn't simply being more flexible.

It's having enough usable range of motion to move well and train effectively.

6. TAKE SLEEP AND RECOVERY SERIOUSLY

You may have gotten away with terrible recovery habits when you were 22.

That doesn't mean they're helping you now.

Your training is only one piece of your fitness.

Sleep, stress, nutrition, hydration and recovery all influence how well you can keep performing.

You don't need to become obsessed with recovery gadgets.

Start with the fundamentals.

Train.

Eat well.

Sleep.

Move.

Recover.

Repeat.

YOU DON'T ACCIDENTALLY STAY STRONG AFTER 40

This is the part I want every guy to understand.

You don't accidentally stay strong after 40.

You don't accidentally maintain muscle.

You don't accidentally stay lean.

You don't accidentally stay athletic.

Those things become choices.

Daily choices.

Every workout is a vote for the person you're becoming.

Every walk matters.

Every strength session matters.

Every decent meal matters.

Every night you prioritize sleep matters.

None of those things will transform you overnight.

But repeat them for years and they completely change what aging can look like.

The boring stuff works.

It always has.

STOP TRYING TO BECOME 22 AGAIN

The goal isn't becoming the guy you were at 22.

That version of you had different responsibilities, different priorities and probably a completely different lifestyle.

The goal is becoming the strongest, healthiest and most capable version of yourself at your current age.

If you're 42, build an incredible 42-year-old body.

Then build the strongest 52-year-old version of yourself.

Then 62.

Then 72.

That shift completely changes how you look at training.

You're not desperately chasing your past.

You're building something for the future.

TRAIN FOR THE PEOPLE AND THINGS THAT ACTUALLY MATTER

Nobody cares that you used to be in shape.

But the people in your life will care about what your health allows you to do in the future.

Your spouse cares whether you can travel, move and enjoy life together.

Your kids care whether you can play with them.

Someday your grandkids may care whether you can get on the floor with them and get back up without assistance.

And the future version of you will absolutely care whether you spent these years building strength and capacity or simply telling stories about the shape you used to be in.

Your best physical chapter doesn't automatically have to be behind you.

But you do have to stop living off the old one.

WANT TO BECOME STRONGER AND MORE ATHLETIC AFTER 40?

This exact philosophy is why I created Old Man Athletic.

It's a complete 10-week training system for men and women 35+ designed to help you build and maintain the physical qualities that matter as you get older:

Strength.

Power.

Mobility.

Athletic movement.

Conditioning.

You'll have every workout laid out for you, video demonstrations, mobility work, conditioning, recovery guidance, nutrition education and our Athletic Combine to track how your performance changes across the program.

This isn't about trying to become 22 again.

It's about becoming the most capable version of yourself right now and continuing to build from there.

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Stop talking about what you used to be able to do.

Let's build what you're capable of next.

Jeremy Scott
Jeremy Scott Fitness